I agree with the hands-off thing-- I think part of the reason Takatora got into so much trouble with Micchy is that he was a little too confident that they were the same. Takatora just doesn't understand people very well, alas. Micchy isn't always good at people either, but he has the excuse of being a teenager who keeps five bazillion secrets reflexively.

Poor Michi probably gets patronized and/or called a shrew on a regular basis.